QUOTE (Heatseeker @ Feb 16 2009, 04:56 PM)

I can guarantee every single person on this board at least once in their life has felt that very same urge. Be careful getting down from those high horses you all reside on.
I agree with you about the high horses - but then, I agreed with Jimmy Carter about the lust in his heart comments, which earned him a great deal of unjust derision, imo. But I have to differ with you about Favre's behaviour coming down to mere 'urges'. Yes, you're right, we do all feel those urges, to stick it to someone when we're sore. But we don't all
act on them - and that's a significant difference. Furthermore, even fewer of us act on them when we have to go out of our way to do so, or when it requires a significant passage of time to carry out our plans.
QUOTE (packinatl @ Feb 16 2009, 05:24 PM)

It has been reported that McCarthy was asking Favre "if he was coming back" not we "want you back". Splitting hairs maybe. But never once have I read that the Packer organization went to Favre and said we want you back. They pressed him for an answer if he wanted to come back, that's it. Big difference IMO
I'm sorry, but I think this demonstrates the height of bias. You start out by saying it might be
splitting hairs, but then you end the paragraph by deciding it's a
big difference. Furthermore, you interpret their contacts with Brett prior to March as pressing him for an answer, in spite of the things they said they were doing (i.e., in terms of their intentions/motivations). So you're not only speculating and passing it off as fact, but you're speculating in opposition to the only evidence you have, which reasons are equally possible and reasonable (that is, that they did NOT want to push him, because they were sympathetic to the difficulty of the decision).
Now, I'm willing to accept a reluctance to take their statements purely at face value, considering that there are elements of self-interest in portraying things the way they did. But that's far short of actually
deciding that the
fact of the matter is something else entirely, without any basis or even supporting logic. There's a big difference between a healthy degree of scepticism and downright total cynicism.
As for the splitting hairs/big difference, it is splitting hairs - in the worst way. I know very well that a subtle difference in word choice can make a difference, but in this case, it's splitting hairs in appearance only. They said publicly they wanted him back. They were in regular contact with him, to ask him about coming back. You can parse their sentences all day long, it doesn't change the facts of the matter. They did the same things they did the previous season, at least by their account.
Let's take worse case scenario, short of considering Machiavellian political machinations on their part. Let's say, for the sake of consideration, that they had mixed emotions. On the one hand, they had a very aged QB who had just had the season of his life. On the other, they had a young QB waiting patiently in the wings and they might have felt they had reason to be concerned about the effect on that QB. Furthermore, if the ageing QB started to slide badly midseason, they knew they'd be faced with the question of whether to bench him and all of the fallout that would entail.
So let's say they had these mixed emotions and misgivings - they were willing to continue with him, but they had some misgivings. So, in that case, why call him at all? They could publicly say the same thing they did say, which was that they didn't want to pressure him, that they knew it was a difficult decision for him, and leave it at that. They didn't need to call him to ask him if he was coming back. The very fact that they called him at all is a clear indication that the door is open to him. For you to interpret that as some hidden contrary message that they were telling him that they didn't want him back is more than a reach, imo. It's fantastic. (And for Brett to say "crickets" is, as someone suggested, the height of disingenuousness.)
Now, let's take another scenario - let's say they did want him back, but obviously they wanted him back in top form. How Brett felt about his capacity at that age might have been very important. Maybe they really
didn't want to pressure him, just as they say. It's delicate between professional adults. They know he's a loyal guy, an emotional guy, who might feel obligated to return -
which would be the wrong reason to return. So maybe they felt it would be best to approach him as neutrally as possible, trusting that their public pronouncements AND the very fact that they regularly contacted him would be more than sufficient for Brett to know that the door was open, but there was no pressure so that he could decide either way, comfortably.
All this talk about what Thompson or McCarthy should or should not have said; all this tendency to fall back on the comfortable position of "they were both at fault" is just so much hooey. They were not both at fault. The Packers let Brett know they wanted him back, they gave him time to make his decision, he made his decision and they went forward with plans accordingly. There is NO fault on the Packers' side for any of that. When later, quite late in the offseason actually, he threw a wrench in the works by saying he wanted to come back, then they were in a helluva fix. At that point, it would be nearly impossible for them to come out smelling like roses.
The only other thing the Packers could have done was simply release him, which would not be the smart business approach OR football approach, but it might -
might - have been a better political approach (but even then, I suspect they were in a lose/lose position with the fans).
This disdain for Ted Thompson, which dates back to 2005, is just rather mind boggling to me. Reggie White wanted to come back after retiring, the Packers said no, and he signed with another team. Wolf didn't get any of this s$$t for the decision. There was none of this nonsense about how it was half Wolf's fault, at the very least. I don't know if Reggie's contract was up, but I would presume so because otherwise the Packers would have gotten something for him.
This either/or mindset which makes of this some huge battle is only a figment of fans' imagination. I'm not coming down heavily on Favre, though I do think he played it all out like a boob, running hither and yon to put his foot in his mouth. But he's only human and I don't fault him for that. He wanted to come back, fine. He pushed the issue, fine. The team had to trade him, fine. He went on to make disparaging remarks about the organization that had made him rich and famous - or enabled it, rather - and that's not so fine. Not a question of evil, exactly - he's still a good guy with a good heart, albeit somewhat adolescent. Probably pretty much like all southern macho overachievers, frankly. No big deal. But that Brett's sins are merely venial and not mortal, does not translate through some process of alchemy into meaning that Thompson is also guilty of venial sins in the matter. That's just plain ridiculous. (PS. I use 'sin' here purely metaphorically, as obviously sin does not enter into it - at least not in the terms of this dialogue.)
However you slice it, however, responding to the title of this thread, it was petty of Favre to ACT on the URGE to let any aspect of spite to enter into his decision. But as Heat says, we all have pettiness within us, so it's hardly a major issue, nor does it take away anything from his achievements as a player.